How Grade Skipping Changed Everything

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By Deborah Mersino

I’ve only been knee-deep in the world of gifted and talented education for 3+ years. Prior to that, my exposure was somewhat minor. I read scores of parenting books (some on gifted children), and we had both girls tested for programming at the Center for Talent Development at Northwestern University. We also considered sending them to Quest Academy in Palatine, Illinois, prior to our move to Colorado. However, it wasn’t until this summer that we heard the words about our dd10 (dearest daughter who is 10), “She’s an excellent candidate for a grade skip, and she wants to…”

Then, a week or so later, the same scenario repeated itself with my younger daughter at the Gifted Development Center in Denver, Colorado. “She, too, would be a prime candidate for acceleration.”

My first reaction was, “Really? Are you serious?” For one, I thought acceleration was primarily geared toward early entrance to kindergarten and profoundly gifted kids entering college. Our two daughters, ages 9 and 10, were smack dab in the middle of elementary school. Did people really grade skip at this juncture? I had loads of questions:

  • How will we know if it’s the right decision?
  • What happens if one skips and the other one doesn’t want to?
  • What about the fact that one daughter doesn’t seem to be particularly fond of school? She’s not even getting top marks.
  • What about my perfectionistic daughter? Will it be too challenging for her?
  • What about socially? Are they mature enough to handle a skip?
  • Will the school be amenable? How do I even initiate the process of discussing acceleration?
  • Should we be concerned that there are equally bright students (perhaps even more advanced) in their current classes?  They do have peers. Shouldn’t they simply stay where they are?
  • Will they feel too much pressure? Is this just a novel idea that will wear off when the work seems harder?
  • What about learning gaps? What happens if they don’t know what they’re supposed to learn about Colorado history and/or certain science requirements?
  • What if they start and then hate it?

Thankfully, we got all of these questions answered and then some. Between Dr. Linda Silverman, Barbara (“Bobbie”) Jackson Gilman, and Kim Boham at the Gifted Development Center, we not only discussed each question thoroughly, but we also learned an extraordinary amount about research on acceleration, how vital it is for the students to initiate the idea (not parents), and how to advocate with the school to ensure the best possible outcomes.

Many of you have asked me to share a bit more about our experiences. I’m going to simply provide a brief summary. As you can imagine, every child is different, and every school situation differs as well. This is not meant to be an exhaustive testimony on acceleration, but rather an example of how it unraveled for one family – ours. My hope is that you may resonate with some of the questions and/or concerns we had and learn a bit more about how to explore this option.

Here are some of the biggest lessons we learned:

  • Comprehensive assessment and testing is essential. We were fortunate to have both girls tested at the Gifted Development Center in Denver, Colorado. We started with a Needs Assessment. Then, the measures administered included the Wechsler Intelligence Scale for Children – Fourth Edition (WISC-IV); Woodcock-Johnson III Tests of Achievement (WJ-III ACH), Self-Perception Profile – Ages 8-12, “What I Am Like”, Gifted Development Center Emotional Inventory, Characteristics of Giftedness in Children Scale, Introversion/Extraversion Continuum, Behavioral Checklist, Short Sensory Profile, Overexcitability Inventory for Parents (OIP). This is only a sampling of the tests/measurements available to families; these represent the customized recommendations based upon our girls’ Needs Assessments.
  • Having a psychologist who specializes in gifted learners is essential. Both our girls felt an immediate rapport with the testers. Given we have an introvert and an extrovert, I was delighted. Such camaraderie helped make the entire experience much more enjoyable. Both girls had fun, and my oldest even said, “Why can’t school be more like this?” Moreover, the amount of experience and discernment such experts bring can have a significant impact on the quality of the evaluation, recommendations, and consultation.
  • Proper assessment gives parents a clear picture of their student. As someone who is admittedly controlling, I thought I had a pretty good read on my girls. I was actually aghast upon looking at their WJ-III scores. “Really?” I thought. I was also surprised to hear some of the comments they both had made to their testers about school. Afterwards, we felt as if we had new lenses on, which would help us in the years to come.
  • Parents can discover hidden learning disabilities and/or minor glitches. We learned that both girls had small tracking issues with their vision, something that often goes undetected in regular eye exams. Both girls received referrals for visual-therapy. Parents of twice exceptional students benefit particularly from comprehensive assessments such as this.
  • The post-test consultation was worth its weight in gold. I found myself shaking my head in amazement as I learned new insights about their personality types, their strengths, nuances, outlooks on life and family, views on school, needs, and passions.
  • The Psychoeducational Evaluation we received allowed us to initiate discussions with our girls’ school in an ideal manner.

Iowa Acceleration Scale

In the days to follow, we contacted the school’s GT specialist, who offered to complete the Iowa Acceleration Scale for both girls. According to the Institute for Research and Policy on Acceleration, the Iowa Acceleration Scale offers the following:

  • A more objective look at the student;
  • An analysis of the major factors to be considered in making a decision;
  • Guidelines for weighting the relative importance of the major factors;
  • Documentation of the student’s strengths and concerns;
  • A numerical range to guide the discussion and decision of acceleration; and,
  • A standard of comparison with students who have had successful accelerations.

Together with the Psychoeducational Evaluation provided by the Gifted Development Center, this tool accessed additional factors. After the specialist discerned that both girls were, in fact, good candidates, he scheduled a meeting with the school principal, the assistant principal, the school counselor, the District’s Gifted and Talented Coordinator, and our entire family.

We sat down in July with this group at the school and had an informal discussion about what the girls wanted and their concerns. Both girls readily stated they wanted to do a whole grade-skip. After discussing specifics, including dd10 going into Middle School instead of 5th grade, we came to a final decision.

In the weeks following, we had several conversations about next steps. It was then that the GT specialist suggested our dd10 take the end-of-year 6th grade Math assessment. Based upon her Woodcock-Johnson III scores, he and the principal thought she might benefit from a double-acceleration in Math. After taking the test, she was given the option to go from 4th grade math directly to 7th grade math; she chose to give it a whirl.

We’re now several months into the school year, and I must say, the grade skips have had such an extraordinary positive impact on both girls. We’re fortunate that the receiving teachers welcomed the girls with open arms and understanding. The principal,  GT teacher, GT coordinator, and counselor proved so supportive and insightful. The adjustment has been much smoother than I anticipated. DD10 has confidence navigating the halls of middle school and has made good friends. She even went to her first dance right before Halloween! DD09 has finally gotten comfortable with not immediately knowing the answers in class and is developing much more of a growth mindset. She says this is her favorite year of school by far.

I realize we’re fortunate. Not all administrators and classroom teachers are familiar with the empirical research on acceleration. My hope is that this post might open a few minds. There will always be those who argue, “But you’re giving up a whole year with your kids!” and “They won’t have their driver’s license at the same time as other kids.” I feel more calm about our decision than ever.

Thanks to the experts at the Gifted Development Center and the girls’ school who guided us, I’m now aware of the dangers of not grade skipping students with certain profiles. Breezing through coursework without being sufficiently challenged and potentially losing interest in school altogether can prove debilitating – and even toxic – later on in life.

Here’s to promoting  a love for learning with no limits. Here’s to the psychologists, gifted specialists, and administrators who take the time to learn about the research and the cognitive and social-emotional needs of these learners. You’re impacting our collective futures, and I, for one, am utterly grateful.

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8 Responses to “How Grade Skipping Changed Everything”

  1. StephLove says:

    I’m glad acceleration worked out so well for you. Our 5th grade son is lucky to have been attending a gifted center since 4th grade. He has all his classes within the center except specials (music, art, etc). It keeps him with his peers both chronologically and academically. I’m not sure what we would have done if we didn’t have that option.

  2. Julie says:

    We also just experienced skipping a grade. We moved 2 years ago and our son was struggling with new school choices. We tried one school for 3rd grade; wasn’t a fit, we tried another one for 4th grade also not a fit. Since we had to look for a new school anyways, we spoke with a private middle/high school and they agreed to look at the option of acceleration and accepting him into their sixth grade. They and we took our time and looked at the option. They and we thought it would work. So far, so good. The fit is SO MUCH BETTER, he is back to enjoying school and learning. I’m not hearing “I’m bored,” “I learned that already,” etc. I’m happy that we had this option for us.

  3. ~Kim says:

    Thank you so much for your insights and story. We just accelerated our daughter to 1st grade. It has been one of the best parenting moves we’ve made. It amazes me to sit down to do homework and actually see her thinking! Best of luck to you precious daughters and for you as their parents. They are lucky to have you! 🙂

  4. Caryn says:

    Our family has also had the acceleration experience our DS08 went into 4th grade this year instead of 3rd and is currently testing in 5th grade math. We are so fortunate to have Kim Boham as his gifted teacher in our school district. Without her support and tireless advocacy in the school our transition would have been so much more difficult.

  5. Lisa says:

    Thanks for your post, Deborah. I want to have my boys assessed like this too. They did the WPPSI-III when they were 4 or 5, but that doesn’t give a lot of information (and has very low ceilings).

    You are so fortunate to be in a district or school that permits acceleration. Even armed with my boys’ IQ tests, I couldn’t get acceleration at our local public school or the private Montessori school they were already attending. The latter had all sorts of arguments about how optimal social development required kids to go through each level of their 3-year age grouping, and an early bump up to the next level would have apparently cheated DS out of the invaluable experience of his senior year. Ugh. He spent that year colouring by himself because there was nothing left for him to do in the classroom, and promises of advanced work being provided were honoured more in the breach, hence our decision to homeschool after that year.

    So glad this is working out for your daughters!

  6. Debbie S. says:

    My oldest is 12, was identified as gifted in all academic areas in 5th grade, and is attending an online public school for the first time (we left our brick and mortar public system when the gifted teacher -singular – for 7th grade told me point blank that the kids love her class because it’s so easy and she loves teaching gifted students because she doesn’t have to work so hard. *eyeroll*) She is progressing much more RAPIDLY through the 7th grade curriculum than we expected and just tested above a 12th grade level in reading and comprehension. How do I go about finding here in Ohio a testing center like you found in Denver?

  7. jean-claude says:

    I am glad to hear that you have received so much support. From my perspective this is rare. We have a magnet (GT) program in elementary but middle school is lacking and my daughter is bored. We had her take an IQ test in order to start “3 weeks” early into 1st grade. She tests 3 grades above level in the 95+ percentile and we can not even get a one subject acceleration.
    Acceleration isn’t right for every student, but I am sure your girls will be fine and it will actually help even more in college and grad/post-grade school if that is what they chose.
    There are dual enrollment options for college so they can stay with their peers and still be intellectually challenged.

  8. T. Brittain says:

    Our youngest son had testing done in public school which showed that he needed to be accelerated. The classroom teachers were not prepared for that and did not know how to make it work so they held him back. We skipped Grade 2 as we have been homeschooling for Grades 3 and 4. He is now 8 and is completing math at a grade 5/6 level and is reading at a University level. Homeschooling has been a huge area of resource for us as the school we are enrolled with has a terrific special needs department which has given us direction to help our gifted child. They were very helpful when it came time to do testing as well.

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